It is all about beingness. If you believe you are poor, no matter how much money you have, you will always be a poor person. Because you have a poverty mentality. If you believe you are ugly, no matter what kind of clothes you wear or how much you try to enhance your appearance, you will still never be truly beautiful. That’s because your expressions will communicate that you are not really good looking enough, and so you’re trying too hard to appear beautiful.
Look at the world. No one who is truly beautiful think of themselves as ugly. No one who is truly rich think of themselves as poor. Complete beauty is both inner and outer beauty. Inner beauty is in the self-image.
What you are is what you see you are.
Having is about being. To have confidence, be confident. To have understanding, be understanding. To have admiration, be admirable. What you have is always meant to be an expression of what you are, and not to define what you are. It is YOU that define what you are. What you have, is an expression of your beingness that results as a manifestation of your beliefs, and whether that manifestation has occurred or not, should not change your inner definition one bit.
Who you are inside creates the results you get outside. Once you change the way you are inside, the outer world changes. The energy you give out attracts and creates the results you get.
Change your inner energy and you change your results.
Consciousness defines Being. To have something is to be in vibrational resonance with the energy of that thing with your being and preceding, your consciousness. If you have a consciousness of lacking, you will be a person of lack and the energy of your beingness will attract more situations of not having into your life. If you have a consciousness of having, then your beingness will attract more situations of having into your life.
What you embrace in your inner world creates what you experience in your outer reality.
Once you take care of the inner, it will show results in the outer. When you get the lessons, you don’t need the experiences.